#4 - Do not fear change
Break routine! What YOU don't change stays the same.
In the right conditions, a seed turns into a plant. A little later, the plant magically grows a beautiful flower. Again a little later the flower withers and dies. A natural ongoing process of change and growth. And so it is with us humans too. Whether we think about it or not, everything always changes. Nothing and no one ever stays the same. But! If you want to see a fundamental change in your life, if you want to give your life a new direction, then it's up to you to consciously choose to change that which is holding your life in its grip… And that something is you!
As you consciously choose to start the path of change, you will certainly get reactions of others who don't like your changed behaviour, but personally you will experience the change as liberating, as an evolution, as a growth. Not everyone will agree with that statement. Only those who know what inner growth really means will applaud your change, your evolution, while others in the old environment might judge it or even condemn it.
Leave them and don't pay any attention to possible reactions of others. Follow your own path and go for it. Whatever it is you have to do, have faith in the Energy Dynamics which are guiding you. Whatever experience comes your way, both the good and the difficult ones are all there to help you. Your experiences are your lessons and they will take you to wherever you need to be.
Your destination is unknown and the path can be a total surprise. That's how it's meant to be. It's how it should be as a calling, from deep within, needs to be answered and is asking you to walk the path of change. As you learn new things and grow in the process, you will develop your talents. Talents you didn't even know you had. Yet they will emerge gradually in the course of all those experiences. They will help you better understand your next life situation.
Nothing happens just like that. Everything has a reason.
Instead of looking at your current situation as your fate or doom and suffer it as a victim, ask yourself why these things are happening. What are they telling you? What can they teach you? And how can you act in a better, more appropriate way with the lessons you've already received thus fare?
The energy shows you the way. Anything feeling good means 'forward'. Anything feeling bad means "Stop, not that way". But as long as you continue to ignore those signals given to you through the energy of your body, nothing will change. As long as you keep repeating, on full autopilot, your habitual reactive behaviour you will continue to attract the same discomfort, the same pain, the same sadness, in short, the same suffering. In other words, you're running in circles on one and the same level of awareness thinking there's no way out. Blindly spinning around you do not see the opening to a next level of consciousness. You keep missing that gate.
Those who keep spinning in the carousel of old habits will at one point hit a wall. Make sure this doesn't need to happen to you and choose, today, to stop thinking it all has to be this way.
Get out of the routine rat race and sit with it for a while. View your situation from your position. That is, from the place you've ended up in your life, right here, right now. Where do you stand? Who are you today? Don't look at it from someone else's point of view. No! Look at it with your perception! Do it for you! Speak your truth! Give your opinion!
As long as you keep listening to your surroundings you will never walk your own path. Anyone who constantly follows someone else's opinion walks the path of, yes, someone else. And then, years later, you no longer recognize yourself! You then say and do things that are not in line with Your True Nature, your personal energy. And that causes friction in the deepest parts of your beingness. That's where the shoe pinches, that's where profound feelings of frustration and irritation emerge from. That's what makes you unhappy and the longer you ignore those feelings, the worse it gets.
Until the Higher Self says, "It's enough now", and a bomb explodes, in whatever form, depending entirely on your personal life details. Where have you led yourself to, with all this ignoring of your personal desires? In which (outer) world are you living as a bomb ignites? Is it a family situation that is getting out of hand? Is it a marriage or a relationship on the rocks? Is it related to a work situation abruptly terminating? An accident? A disease? Whatever it is in your story, these are all signs that it is time for you to wake up.
And during the recovery process it's high time to make your way back. Back to your True Self. Back to your True Nature. Back to the personality you are at the core of your being. Back to the one You are Destined TO BE.
That's what is needed. That's what you then have to do! That is the path ahead for you.
A path of change ~ A path of experiences.
A path of lessons ~ A path of growth.
Your Life!